It looks like the preachers selling the purity propaganda are wrong (big surprise). There’s this fabrication within the purity culture that goes like this: if you save yourself for marriage, you will have mind-blowing sex and live happily ever after. Not so for quite a few people. Take Jessica Ciencin Henriquez’s article “My Virginity Mistake” on…
This is a very touchy subject. For some, like me, it would mean that one had denied him/herself, in vain – sometimes for many years. I find nothing in the Bible specifically listing premarital sex a sin, not even in the big list of sins in Leviticus 18, where the Lord details unlawful sexual sins,…
I am no longer a virgin. I’ve had sex with a few people and I don’t care to let people know how old I was when I “lost” it. I don’t regret having sex – I regret waiting. When I think back to all of the frustration I was put through, it infuriates me. The…
I made this blog after learning some things about “scripture” and the Christian faith that were, to put it plainly, shocking to me. I’ll tell you a little about my personal history a little later, but suffice it to say right now that what we’ve always been told at church, especially in regards to sex,…
Lust Is Not Sin 